If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
I mature so much daily… I’m really careful now with life attempting to get me off balance with my growth . Cause it’s no resorting back , it only gets better !!
i think it's nice to have someone who's aware of your sensitivity and learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. it can be incredibly comforting to show your vulnerability to someone and have them learn how to respond to it with understanding and…………?
I don’t care how independent or self sufficient she seems, treat her well. Buy her things, take her out, court her, pursue her. She’s doing everything on her own because she has to, not because she wants to.
as a hyper independent girly (to a fault) i do not like asking for sht it makes me uncomfortable. that's why i like men who just DO. don't ask, just figure out what i need/want and DO IT
Don't be silly, a man who truly loves you couldn't go a day without talking to you, without knowing how you are, he will show interest in you every day, suggest plans, take care of you, look for you, and would never do anything wrong to make you feel bad.
"my feelings are hurt and i need time to process them so i can better communicate with you" is a perfectly valid response & i wish we used it more in moments of conflict