my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
i never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, and if you can't find her, don't use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
In case you weren't raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship, Whether people want to admit it or not, woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
we're older now, no one wants to be in a boring ass relationship with no real dates, no elevation, no traveling, no chemistry, no nothing. Just shacking up, having sex, and being toxic. Go do sum 😩