Any man who constantly cheats has low self-esteem, among other issues. He needs that constant attention and validation to feel worthy. Quiet as kept a lot of men are more codependent than women, if we’re being honest. They can’t stand being alone, so they jump from woman to woman. Sad to witness.
I love people who decide they want better and quietly start changing everything. No announcements, no explanations just new habits, stronger boundaries, higher standards, and a completely different life.
telling your brain "i know you don't wanna do the thing and it'll be very uncomfortable for you at first but you can do it buddy. it'll be fine" is actually surprisingly effective. it sounds too simple but that fuckass organ WILL listen to you if you treat it with kindness lol
Even with a job and hobbies I'm still gonna wanna speak to someone I'm dating at the very least once for the day. And seeing my text being ignored all day while they on social media would annoy me as well. Y'all tooooooo nonchalant for me
People are surprised by these files but cannibalism was a regular part of chattel slavery. They were eating their slaves. I wish basic US history classes didn’t condense mass enslavement down to just picking cotton. They were EATING them. Literally boiling fat down to make oil as holiday gifts after a lynching.
You HAVE to enjoy life after you get off work or you gone feel like you slaving away. Like PLEASE go have drinks on a random Wednesday. YES do that beach picnic too. That’s right, go practice pottery on a Tuesday evening. That go to work, go home, go to work, go home shit is 0/10
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."