If youβre ever venting to me and I start talking about my own situation I promise Iβm just trynna show you I can relate but I hate that I do that because it seems like Iβm making it about myself, when I just want you to see I understand and why I understand π€£.
Princess treatment doesn't mean he buys you gifts 24/7 or drives you around.
It means he doesn't let you go to bed upset,listens to you, patient with you,treats you delicately from the way he talks and touches you. He's the calm when you're in the middle of a storm.
I avoid eggshell type of relationships, canβt express yourself, canβt be yourself, canβt ever be straight forward, canβt be comfortable, canβt talk like adults, canβt be heard, canβt respond with love without it turning into something negativeβ¦
i used to believe that biting your tongue was a sign of maturity, but i realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to issues in the future. Say what you gotta say!