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Historian🎓| Sapiosexual😊| Entrepreneur💼| Educator🧑‍🏫| Lover of...
God🙌🏼
Family🤗
Money😎
and
Chelsea 💙 to d core🥂

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Point, kill and build your design 😎

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@jon_d_doe I came here for one purpose.

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@FabrizioRomano Is he saying what I'm thinking about Chelsea?

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@FabrizioRomano Who cares

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@FCBanter_ @FabrizioRomano That's what they've been doing since the world cup started.

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@NigeriaStories Lolz...he must be a comedian

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@FabrizioRomano I hope he continues with this mentality😂

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@FabrizioRomano Things we love to see

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@jon_d_doe Those who have ears, let them hear.
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you Agba.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Imagine if he had invested that N300k plus other monies he had been giving to her at just 24. By the time he gets to 30, with careful financial planning and discipline, he would be prepared to be a husband and father.

Let me repeat:

Your girlfriend is supposed to invest in you and make sacrifices for you, while you invest and sacrifice for the future of both of you.

But lack of patience and foresight and the love for toto is taking a huge toll on you young men.

And greed has taken a toll on you young girls.

A young man who is just starting life deserves to be in a relationship. It's how he would find his future wife and the mother of his future children.

It's not a period for him to waste scarce resources.

It's a period of vetting, cohabiting, helping each other, and living a prudent or frugal life..

Then he starts to build his life brick by brick while you, the girlfriend, support him, while he also leads you towards the right path and in line with your future goals and aspirations.

Stop all these transactional relationships you people are doing..

They're unhealthy, and they create unnecessary entitlement, lack of focus and misplaced priorities.

You should have sex if you want.

But sex should not be sold in your relationship.

He would always spend on you, but it should not be seen as a compensation for sex.

How will he spend on you?

1. When you go on dates.

2. When you cohabit with him from time to time.

3. When he wants to get you gifts.

4. Then occasionally dash you money.

Not him paying for your rent.

Not him buying expensive phones, hairs, shoes, bags etc.

Not him paying for your school fees.

And certainly not him buying you sanitary pads or feeding your family.

And all his earnings must be legitimate.

This is what young people in relationships should practice.

Contentment, discipline, and reasonable financial planning and future ambitions.

By the time you keep at it, you'd be building a healthy relationship and setting the proper foundations for your future, and possibly, marriage.

You would have earned your place, and be proud of yourselves.

Make no mistakes; you will definitely make mistakes.

You'll fight, quarrel, and even curse at each other.

It doesn't have to lead to breakups.

As long as no red lines are crossed.

Use each fight, quarrel, or misunderstanding as a teaching moment.

Where you have to apologize, do so.

Where you have to be accountable, do so.

Where you have to be transparent, do so.

This is my gospel for you all, this beautiful wet morning.

End.

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@ChelseaFC The Messi show😂🙌

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@FabrizioRomano Bro thought he was getting the golden boot until the GOAT showed up.

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@MAJOROMZ @vermilionpixie Algorithm is crazy😂

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@MAJOROMZ @vermilionpixie I swear🤣🤣

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@japhola1 @auradivinum @jon_d_doe Your last line.

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@jon_d_doe He could be going through a rough patch and man needs to survive.
Who beg 10k today fit dash 100k tomorrow.
Hope side chick gets the odogwu she's looking for.

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@Themrbachelor I blame the man. That's not a reason to cheat on your wife. He should have supported her at that point.

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@cdrafrica This is man slaughter. He should be charged.

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@richies_donsav @cdrafrica @Abdel80344839 Man slaughter not murder

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@maxvayshia Bros where the full gist abeg

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@eurofootcom Well deserved