I can accept someone being busy. I can accept people going through things. But I can't accept watching you consistently show up for everyone else while making me feel like I'm asking for too much.
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.