I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into a person with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
I remember a time when I was made to feel dumb, worthless, like I had nobody and broken. I wasn’t independent because that’s how they wanted me to feel; like I needed them constantly; like I was nothing without them. I was emotionally beat down and isolated.
Be strong.
I swear once you find your person, no one even interests you anymore. like fr lol no one has the same vibe, no one matches your energy as much as they do. everything is just better with them. and not just relationship wise, friendships as well.