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뭔가 원하면 >> 나 이거 해줘 << 라고 명확하게 요구하는 사람이 좋아
유아기 못벗어난티 내면서 아,, 나 뭐 필요한데,,, 아,, 나 이거 없는데,, 못햇는데,,, 이렁시으로 수동공격하면 아~ 필요하시구나,, 없으시구나,, 못하셧구나,, 하게됨 우체국아라가 됨
반면 저 뭐 필요합니다 없습니다 주실 수 있나요? 못했습니다 도와주실 수 있나요? 하면 네네 해드릴게요 함
차이가 무어냐,,,
좀 계산적이라고 할 수도 있겠지만 전자의 사람은 내가 필요한게 생기면 아,,, 온점아니고반점처럼 흐리면서 힘들것같은데,, 안될것같은데,,, 하면서 회피할것같음
후자의 사람은 되면 된다 안되면 안된다 정확하게 말해줄것같음
나도 후자가 되려고 노력하는중야
전에 들은 어떤 팟캐스트에서 독일이 어떻게 나치 독일로 변해갔는지 실시간으로 지켜본 미국 학자가 파시즘에 잘 빠지는 사람의 특징과 잘 빠지지 않는 사람의 특징을 분류한 걸 들은 적이 있는데
파시즘에 빠지는 사람은 직업, 가정 형편과 상관없이 개인의 이익을 중요시하고 불안도가 높음
🦋: everyone, i’d like to give you advice. I’m just being honest, use that time you would’ve spent editing all the negative stuff, and read a book instead. go watch a movie and work out or go talk with your friends. that’s more beneficial for your life. It’s because I just don’t understand, “haters?” calling them “haters” is abit funny too… I don’t understand why you invest your time doing stuff like that. Instead of typing things like “i hate ningning” and editing bad stuff, wouldn't it be more meaningful to spend that time to tell your parents "I love you" instead? that’s what i think… so in the end, the thing I want to say is i'd like for everyone to be healthy and happy, everyone in the world.
💬: what do u think about people being judgy
🌙: about people being judgy i feel sorry for you. like honestly the fact that u give a fuck about the way i look is just so interesting like you could be saying to ur friend “damn she looks like this, she looks like that” but to go and actually type it in… i can’t understand that mentality. like go ahead but honestly work on making yourself better cuz why are u wasting your time. it’s not good energy at all and you're not spreading any kind of positivity. you’re just being negative and if you have to be that way i guess that’s who you are i won’t judge u for that
ningselle’s strong mentality >>>
🌙: “am I healthy” … does it looks like im healthy I mean I am healthy I tried really hard to be healthy like I do but it’s hard for a kpop star to be healthy if im being honest with you. It’s very hard but I do tried and I do recommend always trying ur best to be healthy coz healthy really is wealth. Nothing is worth anything when you’re losing ur health it’s like sometimes u wanna die but the moment u get sick the moment u get uncomfortable let’s say u got food poisoning. U want to live. You’re like you’re dying to live. You’re like pls let me feel normal again u know whenever u have cold and then u have a running nose and you’re coughing youre like omg I would do anything to be healthy again. It’s like that. So do everything in ur power to be healthy