I dont disagree with that. im actually a good looking man, or so ive been told. I also have hobbies and a good career. just because I meet a woman at one of these events doesn't mean we won't be met with conflict and hurdles that we disagree on. and thats the basis of the dating problem. men and women are so divided on issues that women have no room to meet us halfway on. and if you want me to go into detail of things women do that men dont find attractive I can. but then im sure im gonna be told to just shut up and "toughen up" on the things I find deal breakers lol
I have no trouble talking to women. and these are just examples that I brought up. I have a good job, and hobbies. I choose not to go up to women and ask them on a date because of the experiences ive had. and because I speak out about these experiences, im labeled weak? if I meet a woman who is loyal and lives by the same moral standards I live by, then great. But to say moral decay isn't at a high today in this society, and its all weak mens fault im going to push back. And to be honest, every answer you've given me is very condescending and almost like you look down on me. LOL. Thats ok. "just go out in the real world and dont be creepy" Thanks. Didn't know I was creepy, Didn't know I wasn't participating in the outside world. Appreciate your time. Guess you told me.
sounds like youre mad at what Shane gillis said. just do whatever you want. men are tired of this shit. we'll stop being around you guys. hey, here's an idea, why dont you guys make a country where its all women, and well go make country of just men. and see who's more successful. and hey just to follow with how this society operates. we'll give you the car, the dog, and the country we all live in now, and well go find a new country to build. you know, just how divorce operates.
and when you say "nature is solving the weakness problem naturally" do you mean all weak men will not be able to reproduce and therefore no weak men will exist, all weak men will be lonely and kill themselves (suicide is higher in men than women), or simply all weak men will be forced to get plastic surgery and get 6 figure jobs to attract the woman who thinks in order to be of worth, he must attract a woman who finds him strong and not weak. meaning, women value money, whether hes got options where all kinds of women are throwing themselves at him, and hes able to live up to her financial expectations, you know because a man making 70,000 in this economy isn't strong enough in a woman's eyes.
@ZoyaHighVibe because even a weak man would have to fight in wartime...meaning even if you hate men, and hope nature takes care of the weak men, you still would need those men to take your place in fighting during combat. your saying women are fit for combat?
respond to anything. im open to hearing a different opinion. im not a narcissist. and if you provide an argument that makes mine look weak, ill admit it. because id learn and change my opinion. just because im wrong-doesnt reflect my intelligence or worth, so please give me your opinion on my statement.
@ZoyaHighVibe BTW...I merely made an observation about your opinion on what nature is going to do to "weak men". I didn't attack your character, I just disagreed with your sentiment. Go easy on me, im a weak man.
jeeez, look how you talk about men. maybe lets all have conversations about the dysfunction going on in dating. you just generalize all the men that are sharing their complaints. only women can complain about how men treat them? lets have conversations instead of saying natures going to take care of the weak men. LOL society needs men and women. would you go fight in Iran for your country?
@jennmblk we lost the plot when we stopped speaking out against immorality. we lost the plot when we refused to boycott music, movies, and other media that glorify immoral behavior.
There’s good women out there. Just have to find them. I would love to find a good woman. But I’m not stressing out about it. Broaden my mind in changing or improving myself? Sure. I’m always trying to do that. Part of improving myself was having self worth and realizing it’s better to be at peace then be in a relationship with someone who’s immoral and entitled. Deciding if someone is coping usually takes a little context, knowing that person, and maybe even a little psychological evaluation if we wanna be truthful here. I can have an opinion and it be strictly that. Not me coping or rejecting a part of reality.
@_BuggLands_Best Sometimes church is where all the narcissists go to prey on good hearted men or women. Have to be aware and have your guard and discernment up, sadly. But not surprised it was the church leaders who killed Jesus.
Not to nitpick over your enthusiasm of this post, but isn’t Chris Hatch one of your clients?
It’s not so much the content as the undertone, which is that men are universally ignorant slobs who need to be dragged from a cave and fixed up. Some of them are. But both men and women can be that way, and presuming it’s always a guy problem is both misguided and revealing.
A lot of men are “boys” and are clueless and inconsiderate. Absolute truth. But a lot of women are self-absorbed, petty, and believe kindness, consideration and understanding are owed to them without being reciprocated.
Wrong.
EVERYONE needs to be better at treating other people with dignity, compassion and common courtesy. Framing it as strictly a man problem is inane, and clearly not true.
Your client there made a post that certainly much have satisfied his wife and dateless daughters, but it’s very obviously performative. He wanted the world to see how locked in he is to the women on the planet. Mission accomplished, I suppose. He convinced you.
Those of us who are already cleaned up, polite, understanding, considerate and open-minded don’t need to be coached out of caveman traits to find similarly decent partners.
And almost none of us feel any level of enthusiasm about joining Chris for a Bikram session at Yoga Planet.
Just saying.