unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me.
Closure isn't a text, a final talk, or a perfectly wrapped apology. It's the moment you realise that peace is more important than an explanation, that your healing can't wait for someone who had every chance to make it right, and that the ending doesn't need their permission to be final.
"And finally you realize... You can't force "it" to be something. You can't force consistency, loyalty, or even honesty...
You can't force them to keep their word, or to communicate, or to realize something special is in front of them..."
I don't know what to think or feel anymore. I've been on autopilot for so long; I just want to be happy and I have no idea what that looks like any more.
Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >
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I don't know what to think or feel anymore. I've been on autopilot for so long; I just want to be happy and I have no idea what that looks like any more.
Emotionally intelligent men are top tier. Nothing's more attractive than a man who tells you how much he wants you, reassure you without even asking. A man who is busy but keeps you updated all day instead of ignoring you, tells you how much he Misses you instead of acting cold.
Ladies, if a man genuinely cares about you, He will find a way to be with you. No matter how busy his schedule is. He will put efforts, he'll prioritize you & will never make you question your worth. The way a man fits you in his schedule says alot about what he thinks of you !!
Marry the girl with the messy childhood. The one who has experienced tremendous suffering from those she loved, yet chose to heal and rebuild herself. She'll challenge you to do better and call you out on your BS, but she will love you and your children like nothing you've known.