@B3laze "You are your father's son but you are not his choices. Live your life without trying to impress him or your mother and maybe you'll experience a childhood you don't have to recover from."
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you’ve created.
You can literally feel it in your soul when it's time. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want more for yourself. At some point, you'll just know. That's your call.
This story has disturbed me all weekend.
What struck me wasn’t just the alleged killing itself, but the series of decisions that led to it. When you watch the video, the Uber driver went to his car to get a weapon but hesitated for a moment before all hell broke loose.
That split second matters.
It reminded me of the “Two Wolves” legend: inside each of us there is a good wolf and a bad wolf. The one that wins is the one we keep feeding.
Violence rarely appears out of nowhere. It is often the final product of anger repeatedly indulged, ego repeatedly protected, and self-control repeatedly abandoned.
A life was lost. A family was shattered. Another life may also be destroyed. All avoidable. The most important battles we fight are usually the ones no one else can see.
People respect you more when they don't see you often. Even parents. Trust me. It's strange how distance rearranges love, how absence restores what closeness erodes. When people are deprived of your presence, they start seeing you clearly again, not through habit but through awareness. Proximity dulls perception. Space sharpens it. That's just how the human mind works.
The rich give everything to the poor. Advice, life stories, caution, hope. Everything except the thing they need most. The particulars of wealth. How to get rich like they did. That they never divulge. And when you start getting too curious, they get very busy all of a sudden.
Time is the only judge that cannot be deceived. It overlooks words and remembers only patterns. It reveals discipline, exposes laziness and ultimately puts everyone where they belong.
Your brain turns repeated avoidance into fear. The first time you avoid a task, it feels like relief. The fifth time, the same task feels scary. Avoidance trains fear to grow.