i gave you more chances than you deserved. I stayed patient through your distance, your silence, and your lack of effort because I kept believing things would get better.
I made excuses for you and convinced myself that love means enduring the hard parts, even when it started breaking me quietly.
I showed up consistently while you showed up when it was convenient.
I gave you my time, my understanding, and my heart without getting the same energy back. I stayed soft and hopeful even when every sign told me to protect myself. I wanted us to work so badly that I ignored how one-sided it had become.
One day, when life shows you what real effort looks like, you’ll remember how I tried with you.
You’ll think about how I stayed even when you gave me very little, and how I still wished you well despite everything. And it will hit you that you lost someone who genuinely wanted it to work not because they were weak, but because their heart was truly in it.
The day you become afraid to text your partner because you don't want to seem "too much" is the day you should question whether you're in an emotionally safe relationship.
i don’t know who needs to hear this, but it’s okay to still be fucking angry that the man who was supposed to love you forever ended up completely deceiving you and nearly destroyed your soul. you’re allowed to be angry forever about this.
PLEASEEEE date a man who is a provider. That doesn't necessarily mean that he has a lot of money, it means he knos his responsibilities, he will make mountains move just so your needs are met. Often women run after men with money, that doesn't mean that he handles his b'ss.
not only do i love a man that i can call for everything, i love when a man wants to be called for everything. never annoyed, always ready to solve a problem
I love deep conversations. I’m not nonchalant. I love love. I love laughing hard and good memories.
I love people who are kind for no reason. I love consideration. I love empathy. I don’t like not knowing where I stand with people. I love people who care about the little things.
A relationship can survive mistakes but it cant survive patterns. Repeated behaviour isnt a mistake..it’s a choice. Apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
Patterns speak louder then opologies.