@The___Villager@RightCohen I sometimes love to challenge farmers on this. Mkulima yuko na PPE lakini the order that he wears it is wanting. Regardless whether it's a foliar a complete spray gear is very necessary.
Stocks won't save you if you're broke.
A 20% return on KES 100K = KES 20,000.
A 20% return on KES 10K = KES 2,000.
Same skill. Same discipline. Different life.
You don't have an investment problem.
You have an income problem.
Fix that first.
Get new Skills.
Certifications.
Side income.
Better job.
Then invest.
You'll feel the difference.
RETURN TO SILENCE
The moment you realize that you are not living your life,
The moment you discover that you are sacrificing your health, wealth and welfare for a woman and you get nothing in return,
The moment you learn that you have become something else, an exhausted man, worn-out, used, haggard, a shadow of what you used to be,
That is when the reality begins to kick in.
You are a MANIPULATED MAN.
A MANIPULATED MAN has lost everything he owned.
His health, his sleep, his energy, his goal, his vision.
His woman is only warm to him when she wants to benefit, but becomes colder when it doesn't serve her.
Once this reality kicks in, a manipulated man returns to silence.
That silence terrifies both the manipulated man and his manipulative wife.
Because silence will become a mirror that tells the man THE TRUTH.
The manipulated man is terrified of the truth because truth will pierce his heart like a sharp sword slicing his pound of flesh.
The truth is that he has been living a lie, and this is the truth he fears.
But it is the truth.
The woman is also scared that the truth will restrict her access to the man, block benefits and wake up the man from his sleep.
It is here that the woman will tell the man,
"Your silent treatment is the reason I don't respect you anymore."
"If you continue treating me with your silence, I will leave, and you will never find a wife like me again."
"I am the only woman who understands you; no other woman can tolerate your silent treatment."
All these guilt-trips and gaslighting to keep the man under a tight leash of ignorance and manipulation.
And the man will become guilty, and attempt to go back to the old self,
The old manipulated man who chose comfortable silence instead of confrontation to keep the peace, and he continues to suffer in his peace, while tolerating manipulation because he is so terrified to return to silence.
DON'T BE AFRAID of SILENCE, because silence is where your truth lives.
Silence makes you see your shadow and observe its depth.
Silence makes a man see his flaws and his weaknesses.
Silence makes you connect with your spiritual truthfulness.
Silence makes you see who truly values you and who says she values you just because of the emotional, psychological and financial access you gave them.
RETURN TO SILENCE,
You will see what your ordinary self never saw.
SILENCE is the antidote to EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION.
#ManDay