“Ma’am” and “sir” are not signs of age, it’s respect being shown by the person that said it to you. I know everyone wants to be offended by something but, come on.
marry the one who makes you feel safe, reassures you so that you feel secure, hypes you so much that it boosts your confidence in ANYTHING you do, holds you accountable, pushes you BOTH to grow, values you too much to lie, lifts your name when not around & loves you purely