As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit, it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask just figure out what i need/ want & DO IT.
Best thing about me is; I’m really who I say I am!!! I don’t have to fake sht, ion get on the internet and try to keep up an image nor do I have to prove sht to anybody! I’m authentically HER! in real life you gotta get near me to know.
Dear God,
Please place an extra hand on my goals and plans.
Guide them according to Your will.
If they align with Your purpose, help them grow.
If they do not, lead me in a better direction.
Let Your plans be greater than my own.
Amen.
I hope you forgive yourself for all the ways you abandoned your truth just to feel wanted. For all the times you said ‘I'm fine’ when you weren't, just to keep the peace. You don't owe anyone your silence. You don't have to earn your place here. You have always been enough.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. its crucial.
SOME MOTHERS REALLY BEEN GOING THRU THE WORST TIME OF THEIR LIFE IN SILENCE&STILL SHOWING UP 4EVERYBODY still smiling,still lovin,still checkin on ppl who barely check on them back,that type of pain hit different when the world expect u 2stay strong no matter how tired/hurt u are
dealing with a real man will really open your eyes… cause you won’t have to beg, hint, remind, or ask for anything. not time, not money, not affection, not effort. when a man truly wants you, he moves on his own. he pays attention, shows up consistently, and handles things without being told. it’s not pressure to him… it’s something he actually wants to do.
that’s how you know the difference !!