things I find extremely attractive:
mock sympathy, condescending praise, play fighting but they manhandle you, putting "my" infront of everything they call you, making you repeat things when they know you're embarrassed, grunting/heavy breathing while doing an activity
@sllygooseNSFW fun fact this bee actually is a common eastern bumblebee and they dont sting!! and i think it was actually a queen since its larger than most ive seen