Acts of service is definitely one of my love languages. I do and carry SO much on my own so I'm always super appreciative when folks intentionally lighten my load ❤️
Normalise shaming and making people feel uncomfortable. Your married brother brings his side piece to the bbq, Y’all need to say something. If your homie isn’t taking care of his kids, say something/cut them off. We can’t be enabling such poor behaviour.