Fuck a break up, have you ever met a person you had a brief but insane connection with and then the universe was like oops wait sorry that wasn't actually supposed to happenππ
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
Nobody talks about how draining it is BE A GOOD ASS PERSON & itβs fcked up bc you really be caring about people or how they feel bc you always been a βwhat if it was meβ type of personβ¦ but life is teaching me that PEOPLE ARE SELFISH af. And it donβt matter how good of a person you are, how good you been to them, or even how much love you be showing.. some people will never give you that same energy π― & I know for fact I ainβt the only one that feel this way fr & I know being a good person always got me blessed times 10 but ngl sometimes I be wanting to do people exactly how they do me but I know I canβt π―
i love being single so bad bc every time a nigga does something i donβt like i can just go flirt with someone else about it like π you not finna have MY stomach hurting bye as fuck
Reality is some people just donβt align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
my turn offs:
1. lying
2. disrespectful "jokes"
3. replying late for no reason
4. lack of communication
5. lack of consideration
6. being toxic for no absolute reason
7. being too lustful
8. inconsistency
9. bad hygiene
11. lying
12. lying