Whether you meet someone yourself or through a traditional arrangement, only marry someone who is intellectually compatible with you. Someone you can genuinely be yourself around. Someone you'd be happy to raise children with. Someone you hope to enter Jannah with.
i was the girl who was there during his no job, no money, no princess treatment, no food, no gifts, no dates. And I could have left and been with whoever I wanted, but I stayed because I believed in us & still got completely destroyed.
@callmeMaharani Those who are saying women like us don't align good men, let me tell you something. You pretend to be good and loyal in the start and after some time, reveal true colours. DO NOT SAY not all men, because they all turn out to be the same. Loyalty is not valued these days.
Sometimes I want to disappear into the middle of nowhere, where the noise finally gives way to silence and nothing asks anything of me. Just a quiet place, open skies, fresh air, and enough stillness to let my mind rest for a while.
Not to run away from life, but to step back from its constant demands. There is something healing about being alone with nature, where thoughts no longer have to race and time feels slower.
Sometimes, a little distance from everything is exactly what we need to return with a clearer mind, a lighter heart, and the strength to keep going.
اور جب یاد کی بجھتی ہوئی شمعوں میں نظر آیا کہیں
ایک پل آخری لمحہ تری دلداری کا
درد اتنا تھا کہ اس سے بھی گزرنا چاہا
ہم نے چاہا بھی مگر دل نہ ٹھہرنا چاہا
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal.
it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.
We're only rare to someone until our replacement arrives. Then suddenly, every promise, every assurance, every "always" begins to sound like something that was never meant to last.
Allah watched you commit that sin. He saw the whole thing. every detail. and His response?He still let the sun rise for you the next morning. still kept your heart beating. still sent you rizq. that’s not Him being unaware. that’s Him being most kind and ever loving
Miles away from home, but every thought is with you, Chaachu. Some absences echo louder than words. May Allah grant you the highest place in Jannah. Ameen. The hardest thing about grief is that the world doesn't stop. It expects you to keep going while your heart stays behind.
We spend our lives planning for tomorrow, forgetting that tomorrow isn't promised. One day, everything is left behind.. plans, work everything. and somehow, those who remain must learn to live with the unbearable.. that's the irony of life 💔
You never know which breath is your last in this world. And when it arrives, suddenly all conflicts seem unnecessary. It feels that you wasted time not talking to them, not spending time with them. Life is so short. Nothing's worth time that you get with your loved ones.
Don't grieve too much over something in duniya. No loss in this world is actually a loss. The only true loss is if u die without pleasing Allah. So, if something is keeping u upset, get closer to Allah & ask for a replacement & Jannah. You will start feeling better, In Sha Allah.
Once you get addicted of crying in sujood you will never ever cry infront of anyone. Because the way Allah console you after crying noone can. Most beautiful thing is that Allah knows the reason of crying even when you also don't know the reason of heaviness you feel.
Yunhi mausam ki adaa dekh k yaad aata hai,
Kis qadar jald badal jaatey hain insaan Jaana..
Ab k tajdeed-e-wafa ka nahin imkaan Jaana,
Yaad Kya tujh ko dilaayen tera paimaan Jaana..