A man is more likely to stay with a woman who loves him more. Even if he wants nothing serious with her, he hardly intends to hurt her feelings and this is because he instinctively sees her as the weaker sex.
However this is not the case with a woman. From birth, she sees men as the stronger sex. So she's built to look up to strength in men & also punish the weakness in them.
By needing the relationship more, you seal your fate as the weak one in the relationship because you've surrendered your liberty at her feet.
As such, you shall be eaten alive.
I travel the world. I’m blessed enough to sit in first class&business lounges&I often find myself being the only black person there. The 400 years of slavey thing just hit me now. We are sooo behind&the only thing we are extremely good at for now is pulling each other down. ☹️