Normalize not reaching out to someone who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. they know they haven't spoken to you and it's because they don't want to.
Aura is when youโre literally doing nothing and somehow people still decide youโre intimidating, mysterious, arrogant, interesting, or โdifferent.โ girl, i was just standing here.
Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.
What many women are finally discovering is.... If I have to work, raise the children, come home to cook, clean, pay half of the expenses and take care of a grown man, then what exactly am I getting out of this?