Y'all get irritated with people fast because y'all parents did the same with you. Y'all can't communicate because y'all parents couldn't. Y'all think yelling and being aggressive every time you disagree with something is okay because y'all parents yelled and got hostile when they didn't like something you did. Your environment growing up definitely made you the person you are today, you gonna continue the vicious cycle or become the difference?
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
Maturing is realizing that none of us are easy to be with. Relationships are about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
I’m grown enough to admit I’m not the easiest person to love. Life put me through a lot, so yeah… I overthink, I get triggered quick, I shut down, and sometimes I don’t even make sense. I’m sensitive as hell and I need patience.
But one thing about me? My love is REAL.