@gaileyfrey I’m struggling to confront a friend of 10 yrs of her racist obliviousness. 2020 brought that to a head. Talking didn’t change her behavior. I don’t know what to do. Crying a lot
@kinky_horror Take the time you need. Sometimes I think the “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” was one of the stupidest things we ever learned as kids.