i never knew there was an actual term for this:
epistemic loneliness is a cognitive form of isolation that happens when you cannot share complex ideas, inner thoughts, or meaningful perspectives because you lack a willing, able, or understanding conversational partner.
the mature thing to do when youre upset with someone is to discuss it like adults, but most of the time everyone approaches conflict feeling like theyre only and always the victim, which leads to abusive behaviour like this under the guise of "setting boundaries"
or whatever ig
I recently read something that I can't stop thinking about.
It said: there is a line that should never be crossed. When someone knows you are facing one of the hardest times of your life and still chooses to disrespect you or add to your stress, something darker is at play.. Cruelty in moments of deep vulnerability is intentional. And when a person can hurt you while knowing how fragile you are, that kind of betrayal changes how you see them forever.
I'm a type C person I can wake up at 5am. I can wake up at 1pm.
I can work for 15 hrs straight, or I can do nothing for 3 days. text back in 0.5 secs or 2 weeks later. love being alone but hate feeling lonely. overthink everything, then end up saying it is what it is.