Sis, please be with someone who thinks everything special to you is a big deal. Your birthday? A big deal. Fav food? Big deal. Fav flowers? A BIG deal. You in general? A BIG deal..!
It's healthy to disappoint some people. Those who don't communicate and expect you to read their minds. Those who expect you to fix things you didn't break. Those who expect you to be who they want you to be. Those who expect you to put yourself last and do what's best for them.