A therapist said that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You’re so use to people you love not showing up for you or walking away or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. That the only one you could depend on was YOU! So you naturally feel safe when you’re alone
I’ve healed so much that i don’t need to sit and have a conversation with people about how they made me feel or had me fucked up. I just disappear idgaf i mean i love you but i love myself more & Tolerating anything other than respect and accountability is crazy.