Nothing is sexier than a woman that admits she wants u, Sends good morning & goodnight texts. Replies fast. Doesn’t leave you on read. Shows you how much she wants you, Gives you time and attention. Does anything to make you smile & only has eyes for you.
Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn’t make you more loved; it makes you more used. Trust me, they’d be fine without you. Being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.
Being single is cheaper for men. Being in a relationship is cheaper for women. Marriage is where a man starts carrying the real financial weight. Since he is carrying all that responsibility, the least you can offer is peace.
I'm convinced that it’s perfectly ok to live a life that looks confusing to others. Wake up early. Do hard things. Focus deeply. Eat real foods. Go on walks. Obsess over one thing. Read old books. Avoid drama. Save money. Never gossip. Love your people.
Denzel Washington was right, always be thankful for the bad things in life. They open your eyes to see the good things you weren't paying attention to before.
Underrated life advice: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
I used to buy those cheap sunglasses from the roadside all the time and always thought, "What's the point of buying expensive ones? I'm going to loose them anyway." Then one day, I gathered the courage and bought an expensive sunglasses. And guess what? I still have them. I've taken care of them ever since.
That's when I realized those cheap sunglasses weren't getting lost because they were cheap? They were getting lost because I didn't value them enough to care. It's hard to accept, but sometimes in someone else's story, you are that cheap pair of sunglasses.
When you show yourself to the world and display your talents, you naturally stir all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity... you cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others.
As a woman, understanding a man’s biology will solve a lot of your relationship issues. Happy, sad, stressed, worried, or angry, many men still want sex. It’s not just about lust. It’s connection, reassurance, stress relief, validation and love all in one.