Sylvia was one of the most talented and accomplished female American poets of all time, having secured her place in literary canon with only a decade of published work because she killed herself at 30. She WAS more than a wife and mother. She was a fucking genius. You aren't.
Social media has lied to you. It wants you to think these kinds of boundaries are empowering. In reality this kind of thinking and responses are often rigid and inflexible, and rigid/inflexible folks are (usually) not happy in general. Thoughts welcome.
playing an instrument, no matter how poorly, is such an unalloyed pleasure and privilege that I genuinely pity people who outsource it to the technofascist magic 8 ball of ai