@hatecaloriez@FullmetalRainy all humans cosplay as something not real. we’re all made up. society and societal rules can bend and change at the drop of a hat.
@leebpd it’s crazy how i’ve been in this exact position before, on both sides. it’s super important she knows how this affects you, but that you’re also just wanting clear communication so you can understand her. you can fix a problem if you don’t know what the problem is.
@leebpd this quite a bit when we first started dating but we figured it out, and 2.5 years later we’ve still never had a true argument or have done anything close to raising voices or anything mean spirited, even if we disagree on something. it’s pretty crazy and wonderful
@leebpd i’m sure you don’t blow up at her or give attitude when she expresses not being happy with something, so she’s gotta work on getting fast the fear of confrontation. it won’t even feel like confrontation if everyone is just respectful and empathetic. me and my bf had to work on
@therlwrites my mom was watching the first friday the 13th and i snuck out of my room (i was like 5 or 6) and watched it with her and she had no idea… i loved it 😭