this lady is manspreading inside this bus and inconveniencing me terribly. this is a major win for feminism. i support her fully and appreciate her for her brave stance against the patriarchy
one thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect don’t exist. yes, your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing the victim.
If a girl tells you beforehand that she doesn’t want sex, and you deceive her into coming over by assuring her it’s just a harmless visit, only to make sexual advances and pressure her into sex when she arrives, you are a rapist. Consent obtained through deception, pressure, or coercion is not consent
You gotta stay away from people that know they be doing fucked up shit to you .. then be trying to play you like you crazy or doing too much when you acknowledge shit
Lack of consideration is the loudest form of disrespect. Most people will not change how they treat you until you're gone, so match their energy, fall back, and let the distance do the talking.
People don’t know how to sit with their jealousy or insecurity, so they intellectualise them, moralise them and weaponise them against the subject of their feelings. It’s easier to moralise envy or inadequacy than confront it because doing so absolves you of the responsibility to look inward and casts the other person as the problem. It’s a cheap way to escape personal responsibility but at the end of the day you still have to live with yourself and you can’t run from what’s happening inside you by making someone else the villain.
People lack accountability, then say
"You could've talked to me" No, I couldn't. You don't listen; you deflect.
You twist everything into an attack and then play the victim. Conversations with you aren't healing; they're exhausting, and honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand.
let me save you a few years of confusion:
being able to endure something is not proof that you should keep enduring it. you’re allowed to discern that a situation is not right for you before the wheels fall off.
Your biggest blind spot, You think everyone thinks like you. Has your values. Shares your logic. Sees your perspective. They don't. They can't. They're running completely different software. Half your frustration is expecting people to act like you would. They won't