A narcissist hits you with shame. False promises. Accusations. Isolation. Manipulation. Control. Slander. Games. Silence. The past. The mask. Betrayal. Gaslighting. Lies. Abandonment. Insecurities. Criticism. Then claims they did nothing to you.
Women aren’t their most authentic, loving, softest, passionate selves when they’re in love.
Women are their most authentic, loving, softest, passionate selves when they feel safe.
Love isn’t enough. You only get the best of women when they feel safe with you
@CoachElizabethS Know this and know peace. Imploring a narcissist to cease their self-centered ways is like asking them to relinquish a fundamental part of their identity. It's an intricate dance, as the very essence of their being is entwined with the need for constant validation and self-focus.
my life got better when I realized I don’t have to be nice. being nice got me ran over, taken advantage of, stressed out and disrespected. I'm not nice. I’m a good person. There's a difference.