I don’t know what 19-25 year old woman needs to hear this, but: You should not ever have to beg someone to love you. To do things for you. To do things with you. A person that loves you will hear you. They will listen. They will make an effort
I stopped being angry when I realized nothing is ever about me. Its never about you. Its never personal. People cannot handle the internal battle with themselves that they chose to fight others as a means of release for internal aggression
my dad told me “you should never have to ask a man for something twice. if you have to repeat yourself he doesn’t care that much” and I kinda think that’s a solid standard to hold.
you deserve someone who treats you right the first time, someone who shows love without you having to ask, someone who keeps their word without you having to remind them, someone who pursues YOU selflessly. don’t let anyone guilt you into settling