everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are
i don’t wanna feel that feeling of finding out sneaky stuff & having my heart drop to my stomach ever again.. it’s just not something you get used to, it’s makes you sick every single time. finding out some stuff ab someone u thought so highly of is such a bad feeling.. like wow.
I chose to defeat my trauma. I wasn’t going to let it define me. I was tired of using it as an excuse in every connection I sabotaged because I wasn’t emotionally stable or trying to heal. Hiding was comforting, but healing and taking my power back was my greatest love story.