anytime something or someone hurts my heart i never feel the same way about them or that ever again! my detachment is really bad , ever since my cat was taken from me for a week and i was sad asf i had to mentally let her go to get over it and now that i have her back…. 😬😬
being a empath is so hard because when my friends go through something i go through it with them even without them around i just feel a ache in my heart like im hurt asf
People lack accountability and then say “you could’ve talked to me.” No, I couldn’t. You don’t listen or you deflect. You turn every concern into an attack, twist the conversation and somehow make yourself the victim. Talking to you doesn’t bring resolution, it leaves me exhausted. I don’t owe my peace to someone who only wants a conversation to win an argument instead of understand what I’m saying.