Loc’dKillerChef🌻

just trying to maintain a happy relationship with me.

[dr. floww @__Floww]

The aisle? The arches? The cross?!! SICKENING.

[Loc’dKillerChef🌻 @kaytalent]

🙃 if it ain’t one thing it’s another

[$$$… @prkmsj]

like the freaky ass kinks i got im afraid to tell a mf about 😭

[horse dentist @equine__dentist]

me and my fish wife if we were kissing and in love

[WALKER🪂 @maxl1am]

sleeping in your own bed after traveling is an underrated reset

[naz @hisyokki]

Aşkın içinde olmanın en sevdiğim yanı bu

[hot like piss🌱 @rockybiiitch]

First base: raw sex
Second base: telling you about my mental illness
Third base: a kiss in public
Fourth base: introducing you to my friends

[Anish Moonka @anishmoonka]

There's a version of your life that didn't happen. The job, the person, the city you almost moved to. A Harvard psychologist spent years tracking people who lost exactly those things, and almost all of them were fine within months. They just couldn't believe it beforehand.

His name is Daniel Gilbert. He'd ask people to guess how they'd feel after something bad, then track down people who had already lived it and ask how they really felt. The guess and the truth almost never matched.

Take the professors first. Anyone denied tenure has just hit the rejection that ends a ten-year career path. Beforehand they were sure they'd be crushed for years. A few years after the no, they were about as happy as the ones who got the yes. He found single people certain a breakup would flatten them for months. The ones who had been dumped two months earlier were doing far better than the scared group guessed. He even stopped voters leaving a polling station. The ones whose candidate lost bounced back fast, and within a month they had warmed to the governor they were stuck with.

Gilbert had a name for this. The psychological immune system. Your mind quietly takes a bad outcome and reworks it into something you can live with. You start spotting reasons it was for the best. You notice the freedom you got back. It works best when you can't feel it running, so a loss you're dreading never gets counted in.

A second thing trips you up. When you picture the life you missed, you only ever see the highlight reel, the win itself. You skip the commute, the fights, the money stress, the long dull stretches that fill most of any life. The Nobel-winning psychologist Daniel Kahneman put it in one line. Nothing in life is as important as you think it is while you are thinking about it.

Money shows the same thing. A 1978 study out of Northwestern found lottery winners were barely happier than their neighbors, 4.0 against 3.8 on a 5-point scale. The winners got less of a kick out of small daily things, a good meal, a warm morning, than people who never won. The big high had dulled the small ones.

So the relief you feel when something falls through is your mind getting it right. The you who landed that life would have gotten used to it, found its cracks, and drifted back to about where you stand today. You would have hated parts of it, for the same reason you can't quite picture it. The daydream was only ever the good half.

[PrincessCharming @ShayMo_MONEY]

“Any form of a lie ..any form of softening the truth ..any form of not being straightforward is unfaithful……”

[Loc’dKillerChef🌻 @kaytalent]

Sunrise is beautiful this morning

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

the same God who programmed tiny kinesin proteins to know exactly where to go inside your cells isn’t confused about where your life is headed.

that thought alone brings me peace.

[سيدة @Ajoke__xx]

Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

Maybe we'll never speak again and that's okay. I'II always hope life is kind to you, even from a distance. I know you're doing fine without me and though it still stings a little, I've learned to make peace with that. A part of me will always miss what we once had, but I'm learning to let the memories rest gently instead of breaking me. I still pray for you, for your healing, your happiness and your quiet victories. Thank you for being part of my story, even if it wasn't meant to last forever. You'll always matter to me, not as a wound, but as a chapter that taught me how love and heartbreak can coexist beautifully.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to psychology, even though avoidants may appear to move on fast, they usually don't move on emotionally that quickly. They compartmentalize. They distract themselves. They convince themselves the relationship had to end. They suppress emotions instead of processing them. But unresolved feelings don't just disappear. They get buried beneath distance, routine, distractions, and emotional shutdown. And sometimes those emotions resurface much later when the silence finally catches up to them.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

For someone like me who loves G-strings and lace panties and prefers sex with panties being shifted to the side rather than removing them completely all the time, the moment we start dating, the first gift I always give is buying you a set of lingerie.

Aside from fixing nails, lingerie is one of my favorite non-sexual things on a woman. No matter how many you own, I would always buy more, because I have the ones I love and would want you to wear them anytime you are with me.

[Silentum 🦁 @xKhalifan]

TIME KEEPS SLIPPING AWAY

Don’t waste another day. Stop procrastinating. Make a difference. You can do anything. Focus on what you enjoy. Tomorrow doesn’t exist. The future is here. You’ll regret not starting earlier. Opportunities are everywhere. Countless interests. Unique people to connect with. Perform at your highest level. Fulfill your purpose.

The perfect timing does not exist.

The path forms itself while walking.

Your future self will be very grateful that you made a decision, even when you didn’t feel ready.

[Loc’dKillerChef🌻 @kaytalent]

just stiff all the damn time

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

UNPOPULAR OPINION: your body not letting you cry is worse than crying

[Silentum 🦁 @xKhalifan]

MAKE THIS COMEBACK PERSONAL

Become arrogant. Redemption arc. Apology to yourself. The feeling of revenge. Everything or nothing. Now or never. Tired of misery. Others will think you’re a psycho. Mediocrity always disgusted you. Desire to be the best. Impossible to lose. All In. People doubt you. You’ll show up completely new. Success is your proof.

Even after the darkest night, the sun will rise with its brightest rays. So should you.

Take full responsibility for your life.

Because in the end - it always works out.

[🐐 @major_pudi]

God saw me rushing everything in life, with my own plans. So he humbled me by not having the results that I want. Instead, he made me start over again. But this time, I am trusting his plans over mine, and I've never been more at peace.