I was in a relationship with someone once
It didn’t work out
It wasn’t that this was a bad person
Infact when the person was good, the person was amazingly good
It’s like the stuff fairytales and movies are made of
It was unreal
I felt like I was living a fantasy
But here’s what happened
This would never last.
Pretty soon I would soon come to discover that I could never predict this person
We could have one day of the most amazing conversation or outing
And then I could be calling this same person for three days and not get a single response
This was what made it unbearable
Even though we had good days
Beautiful days that seemed so sublime, I was always in fear because I was unsure of what would happen the next day
It did not work because of one word
INSTABILITY
I tried all I could to manage, and make excuses for it, but guess what?
When it mattered most, it happened again
In the worst way possible
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This post is not about relationships of marriage
As I was meditating on this I keep thinking of the Bible verse that says
“Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel “
If there’s one thing God requires in our relationship and dealing with Him, it’s stability
God does not want to have a relationship with you if you show up on Sunday and have such an amazing time of worship, and cry and weep and be “slayed by His presence”
Then you go back home and forget all about Him during this week
You go back and watch porn and masturbate
You spend the night with your babe you’re not married too
You go clubbing and dine with devils and demons
Then you come back the next Sunday and worship and cry
As I kept thinking about how heartbroken I was in an unstable relationship and how when this person would say “I love you “ a time came when it didn’t mean anything m
Because when you truly love someone, you show up
It doesn’t matter if you’re happy or sad
Your mood doesn’t matter
You show up regardless
Just like Jesus showed up on the cross even when He was not happy about what He was going to go through
Writing “Jesus I love you” on your social media handles does not mean anything if you you’re not consistent with Him
If you show up when you’re in danger and beg for His help
God wand you to Walk with Him
To carry your cross and follow Him daily
Emphasis on Daily
This may shock you, but an unstable believer is not likely to go to heaven
Mediate on this deeply
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