I think people underestimate how much of a luxury it is to genuinely like your normal day. Not the holiday. Not the birthday. No the reservation. Literally Mondays or Wednesdays.
For YOUR LIFE to really change, you gotta understand this: You cannot be afraid of being seen. Your ideas, your work, your personality, your voice they’re supposed to be out in the world. Stop worrying about how everyone will perceive you. The people who are meant to find you can’t find someone who refuses to show up. Create without apologizing. Share without overthinking. Let yourself be visible. Because you’re not showing up for everyone. You’re showing up for YOUR people.
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.
Unfortunately, i don’t like nonchalant men. be dominant. check on me. be affectionate. tell me i’m gorgeous. plan dates. buy me flowers. be absolutely obsessed with me.