I love being alone. At home. All day doing nothing. Eating snacks, watching movies, music, books, strolling around, random dance, cooking, pausing at the window. You may find it meaningless. But for me, it's eveything. The ordinary. The little things. But you won't get it.
I think one of the most heartfelt experiences in life is discovering that someone genuinely enjoys your presence. Not what you provide, Not your accomplishments. Just you, your thoughts, your energy, your existence.
Privacy is sexy. Look out there. Everybody is performing their perfectly curated lives. Reels, stories and all. But what's really attractive is living fully without performing for an audience. Keeping parts of your life just for you. Allowing ordinary experiences to feel extraordinary because they are fully yours. In a world obsessed with visibility, choosing to exist without explanation is rare.
start calling yourself out. correct yourself when you're being unnecessarily negative. Mind your business when someone else's choices don't affect you. and hold yourself accountable for the goals you've been putting off.
becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth, and decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you're damaging your mind, body, and spirit.
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
we don’t usually drift from christ all at once. it happens through small compromises and quiet distractions. that’s why we must keep coming back to him every day.
I declare that the favor of God distinguishes me wherever I go. I will not be overlooked, forgotten, or treated as ordinary. The grace of God upon my life will make room for me and cause me to stand out.
Today, I walk in divine wisdom and make the right decisions. My hands are blessed, and every effort I make will produce good results In Jesus name.
being whimsical is a sign that you’re closer to the Divine, because God is the most playful, magical, whimsical source there is. the more playful and whimsical you are, the lighter your energy becomes. the more unserious you are, life becomes more fluid and magical and miraculous
Deep down you know exactly what you're capable of. There's even moments where you get a glimpse of all the potential you have. You can get there. You just have to be willing to sacrifice the negative habits, patterns, and distractions that are standing in the way of your success.
I think women who decenter men, center themselves, are strict as fuck about their boundaries/standards, no nonsense, and are okay going prolonged periods of time without male access because of those standards always wind up attracting high quality lovers/partners/husbands in due time. And it winds up being a love that actually LASTS.
At some point you gotta be honest about the habits in you that keep holding you back. You can’t keep moving the same way, making the same excuses, and expecting your life to change. Getting older comes with knowing better and moving better. Growth starts when you stop defending what you already know needs to change.