“I’ve already told my boyfriend that if he doesn’t marry me this year, the relationship can’t continue because he’s trying to delay me. We can start from somewhere. Money is not everything to women; what matters is seeing that our man is doing something. I’ve never said I won’t support my man. I will support him, but I will not do 50/50 sharing with him.”
The thing about women is when they amongst themselves, they suddenly understand each other
• 10 of them can lap each other in a car or contribute for their Uber
• Will contribute money to buy one yogurt they'll all share
• Will go to mama put to eat
But all of a sudden, when they meet a man, their standards changes
• They want a man with his own car that won't suffocate them or who'll pay for their Uber
• You have to pay for their drinks
• You must take them to an expensive restaurant
At the end of the day, women are smart people. The more reason they understand each other while men are foolish people who'll discomfort themselves to please women.
No woman will allow her fellow woman to use her like how men allow women use them, which is why every high standards they set when it comes to men, it automatically disappears when they're with their fellow women.
If you don't contribute for the Uber they'll take or food they'll eat at a restaurant, they'll discard you immediately. In essence, nobody is being used. That's how women relate amongst themselves.
As a man, until you start relating with women the same way they relate with themselves, you'll always be used and be at the losing end.
"I feel like we should have a law where if you don’t have a certain amount of money to raise a child, you should not be allowed to have a child. And if you do, You will be Ja!led because why are you financially unstable and have children”- Lady says
“I have never seen any divorced woman that has come out to tell us their mistakes that led to their failed marriage, every time, na the man no good. Come out and say the truth”
- Lady says
“I don’t know why Tyla is allowed to go to other countries and make money, when people from other countries can’t go make money in her country”
—lady claimed that Tyla shouldn’t be allowed to go on tour in other countries.
Protecting my peace means I don’t monitor grown adults. If you ask for advice, you’ll get it. If you need correction, I’ll give it honestly. But babysitting people’s decisions? That’s a full-time job I never applied for.