@soIodown You dont have an obligation to tell the officer about your activities. You couldve said “I dont wish to answer any questions. I wouldve asked “Have I committed a crime? Suspected of committing a crime? Am I being detained or am I free to go? If I’m told yes, then Im going inside.
@ShesFishy If the stigma didn’t exist—if society, religion, family, and friends weren’t so judgmental about it—then yes, I agree. More men might explore their attraction to men without feeling pressured to suppress it.
@JustinBPerfumer If the stigma didn’t exist—if society, religion, family, and friends weren’t so judgmental about it—then yes, I agree. More men might explore their attraction to men without feeling pressured to suppress it.
@bigorecap There’s a difference between exposing someone and being responsible for what they do afterward. If someone deceives partners put their health at risk, people have a right to know. Violence is never justified, and fear of exposure should never shield deception from accountability.
@Discreet1977@bigorecap First, my condolences for the loss of your friend. But I think this is part of the problem. We need to stop enabling DL men to believe that exposing their behavior justifies threats or violence, especially when they’re potentially putting their partners’ health at risk.
Like you’re still dealing with a man regardless of whether the wig and makeup are on or off. So what changes? Is it the femininity? The aesthetic? The illusion of heterosexuality? The fact that one situation feels more “straight” to them? Somebody explain this bc I’m curious 😂
Why is it that some DL men will willingly pay trans women for sexual attention, but when they deal with gay men who don’t present femininely, suddenly they expect the gay man to pay for the food, weed, clothes, shoes, phones, etc.? 😂