unfortunately i do not have time for half ass friendships that only consist of "wyd tn lets go to the bar" and their reactions when i say no is all i need to validate my choice to end all communication lol
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird & it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first