If you are a leader and are discouraging your Soldiers from getting a profile to heal properly or telling them they “picked the wrong time to get pregnant“ then YOU are part of the problem and need a new line of work as you have created a TOXIC environment.
david dobrik said he couldn’t wrap his head around the fact that his childhood friend was an assaulter and that’s literally the problem. men will ignore and discredit women but won’t hold their besties accountable :)