Men who beat their wives/girlfriends should be barred from any and all law enforcement or first responder type jobs, for life. They should also never be allowed to work with children or young adults. Ever..
In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
Best advice I can give anybody right now is to make sure you got your own and always do what's best for you. This is a cold world we living in. So get your own and pray you never get in the position to where you have to depend on anybody.
sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” and stand on it. Whether it’s family, a relationship,
or a friendship.
Every woman needs a season where nobody knows what she’s doing. Not her ex. Not her friends. Not social media. Just her, God, and the plan. Some blessings grow better in silence, and everybody don’t deserve access to the version of you that’s still being built.
you must believe you are special and then go so hard, for so long, with such violent refusal to accept any other ending, that reality itself starts running out of ways to tell you no. you must wage a war daily against the ordinary outcome, until the belief you invented out of nothing in a room by yourself has been hammered into the world so many times that it stops being a claim and becomes reality.
The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations.
The reason why I’m able to be fun, bubbly and happy in the world is because I stand up to my family, and I stand up to the people who wronged me. The reason why I’m able to forge a better life for myself and evolve as a person is because I’m incredibly disrespectful
you need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. that’s not you or who you want to be. so if they being that out of you, they’ve got to go