Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
I love a man who wants to see me every chance he gets. I love a man who plan dates & just tell me to get ready. I love a man who buy me flowers without asking. I love a man who loves me like I'm the air he breathes. Keep the nonchalant, non planners far away from me.
I want all the cringe Edater stuff. I want the matching pfps. I want to fall asleep in call. I want to play games together and watch stuff together. I want the cute bios and the happy giggles. Distance or not, it still means just as much and I want it all
One day men will understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. I don’t know how else to explain this but it’s really so simple.
when you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. you also naturally learn detachment as well.