When you say “hey I don’t think we’re compatible” and they say “I think you’re just being avoidant bc we clearly have great chemistry 😏” like oh…okay. If thats what you need to believe 🫂
There’s only a handful of people irl that can characterize me as aggressive or argumentative or volatile or even mean, and I’m okay with that being the lasting impression I made bc that’s the version of me diligently worked to meet