I think one of the saddest things about me is how long I can carry emotional pain without anybody noticing.I will still laugh. Still answer texts.Still show up.Still make people feel loved. All while quietly falling apart in ways nobody thinks to ask about.
Pay a bill. Pay a bill. Work. Work. Work. Change your oil. CARD DECLINED! CARD IS LOCKED! Change your password. 2 step verification. PERIOD! Unload the dishwasher. Change tire. 4 TIRES! WAKE UP! Work. Work. Work. Food is bad. Apple $9.99. Skincare. Sunscreen. Protein. Protein. Pay a bill. Pay a bill. Always somebody’s birthday. “Are you coming?” RENT IS DUE! I’m so EXHAUSTERWELMULATED with life right now! 😩😭
My intuition is so crazy, I can literally have no evidence of what’s going on but still know there’s something going on, and on top of that always be right.
nobody talks about how people who grew up in broken and dysfunctional homes don’t have big dreams. they only dream of having a home no one can take away and a person who won’t abandon them
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
LET ME BE CLEAR. For too long, I let everything slide. But now I have boundaries. You do not get to talk down to me. You do not get to smile at me and secretly despise me. You do not get to throw shade at me through jokes or get to use me. Those days are over.
In an abusive relationship, you either suppress your feelings to avoid conflict, or you express them and become the problem in their eyes. This is emotional manipulation.
THINGS I DONT DEBATE WITH MEN :
1. Abortion
2. Breastfeeding
3. Menstruation
4. Female body hair
5. Birth Control
6. Access to feminine hygiene products
Why? Because NONE of those involve the male body & therefore don't create any valid MALE OPINIONS