You can always tell when somebody been waiting to beef with you. They don't even need a real reason. They been watching, hating, and saving it up. The moment they get a chance, it come spilling out. That ain't conflict, that's jealousy finally getting tired of being quiet.
my therapist told me, "stop assuming people are mad at you. Stop attempting to read people's minds. stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others. let people be in charge of themselves. if they have something to say to you they will and if they don't it is their responsibility not yours. overthinking kills happiness" and that hit me like a brick.
i believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books & movies at different stages of your life.the plot never changes, but your perspective does.