im so sick and fucking tired of men in this scene getting away with being abusive and threatening their victims into silence. you’re fucking cowards and you don’t deserve the platform you have.
i saw someone on tiktok talking about boundaries being needed within the scene and i couldn’t agree more but the harsh reality of all of it is that 90% of these people hit on their fans or HAVE at some point
the number of band dudes that hit me up weekly is crazy and i’m an adult and most of the time they aren’t weird about it so who cares, but sometimes by the way someone approaches you, you can just fucking tell something up.