STAY CLEAR of the ppl who don’t value the SMALL sacrifices you make… Like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, being the one who checks in first. Some ppl only love the BENEFITS without ever loving the PERSON! They will drain you of your energy but go pour all of their energy into someone else. DON’T PLAY YOURSELF! 🤍
according to physiology people who go silent when somethings upsets them or hurts them are often experiencing a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. 1/4
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.