@crazythatoo@Jabu_Macdonald But won't that causes problems in future, I mean the groom family might say you are not makoti because they didn't lobola you and warawara
My cousin maChappies worked at the Cebolethu funerals. Every time after work, he would arrive home and sit next to our grandfather.
He would tell Mkhulu about a new set of coffins and caskets that arrived that day. This other time, he looked at Grandpa and said, "Yazi kukhona iConnection enginayo emsebenzini Mkhulu.. uBusy? Ayaphela amabhokisi afenele wena.".
This thing of my cousin started bothering uMkhulu. So he stopped chilling with us and bought himself his own TV wayibeka ekamereni.
One day, Grandpa started having chest pains, maChappies looked at him and smiled then said, "Ngisakubekele that thing esakhuluma ngayo". At first we took it as a joke but ke manje this was serious. As a family we decided that he must go rent a room in town. Fine, wahamba ekhaya. Kwaba mnandi, noMkhulu wabuyela eDinning Room and watched TV with us.
MaChappies bought uMkhulu a new phone. We thought ke thina maybe it was his way to apologize. We then found out he has been sending coffin and casket specials to uGrandpa, the last message said, "Not that I'm rushing you ne Mkhulu, but I just like beautiful things."
We disowned him.😭😭